Is It Too Late?

[WillD78]

If she is laughing and enjoying life with you without all the parts of you she doesn't want, she is cake eating. Are you willing to just be her "friend" no matter what? If she moves out, if she finds another guy?

Your girls won't be clueless forever. If mommy wants out, you don't keep playing happy family. She chose it, now she deals with that consequence. She might say she's done, but don't believe anything she says and only half of what she does.

You're right. I know she is cake eating, and I am progressing toward putting an end to it. When we are around the children together, I still put on a show for their sake, but when they're off playing or in bed, I am beginning to stop being the friend, following the the rules.