Coming out of the Fog

[Dawn70]

I agree with kml....you don't have to justify breaking up with someone. I would even go so far as to add someone who behaves the way this guy does. He seems to be very arrogant and he also seems to want to make you feel bad about yourself for whatever reason. You don't need that.

I think we all have to deal with divorce and the post-D feelings in our own ways. For me, I didn't even want to think about dating for nearly a year after my D. Others want to date, have sex, even get into relationships quickly. I'm not saying any of us are right or wrong, as we each have to do what works for us personally, but you don't need someone like this dude to validate you. You are enough without his "blessing".