Splitting time with kids gets easier in the sense that you accept the routine. I dont think I will fully be ok with losing half of my time with them. But I make my time with them glorious and when they are away, I do self care and make sure I am working to be the best person I can be for them and every other relationship in my life. It is grossly unfair but you can do something about it - love the time with them and dont waste a second.
