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Every guy i have ever dated has always had an arrogance about them


Interesting. So who in your family of origin or elsewhere in your childhood was like this?
We often unconsciously recreate childhood traumas in our relationships.

What makes you think you don't deserve a guy who treats you like a prescious wonderful being?

And as for breaking up - you don't have to justify it. He's just not right for you. And you don't have to blame him. Just say you don't think the two of you are right for each other and leave it at that.