Thanks guys......I think I feel the pressure because she is a widow with young kids, we go to the same church, and know the same people so this is not like a complete internet random meeting........I think that is why I feel there is more at stake. As far as ew goes.....I saw her yesterday for 5 min during kid drop off........then I heard her bf yip yip dog barking in the background and I felt nothing. I was annoyed, kind of repulsed, and just walked out the door. She has moments of niceness, we did have great sexual chemistry but overall she was more nasty, in her own world, and shellfish than anything else.......I have clarity now with time and space. Her new BF can have her. Good luck.