Yet another LBS looking for advice

[ovrrnbw]

You need to work on detachment. Your words about babysitting are not about your GAL, but about making sure she can't go out every night of the week. In other words, you are trying to control her. But you can't - you can only control yourself.


Your W is in a bad spot mentally, emotionally right now. You worrying about her blaming you for her unhappiness is working against you. You can't control that - you can only control yourself.

You see the theme that keeps coming up?

And let her feel the decision of getting rid of you instead of answering her calls, texts, going on "family outings" instead of trying to make her life easy.