David,

quit worrying about every little thing your W and her parents are doing. You can't control any of it. Focus on what you can control.

Quit doing "family meals" with your W. She doesn't want a family with you, your family is you and the kids.

Your W is playing a ton of games, you need to stop. Rise above it. Be the calm one.

Your W won't realize she is wrong like you're hoping. You can't control this either.

Stop pursuing. What does your GAL look like? You don't have the kids much so you should be out and about.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.