You could kick your W out of the MBR since she has desecrated it. You could stop being there for her and answering calls and taking care of things for her. You could GAL and not be so present and accessible. You could quit worrying about some "move out agreement", she obviously isn't afraid to break her word anyways.

Instead you focus on all the wrong things. You're looking for magic. Pay attention to her actions.

When she has remorse, you'll know it. She's sleeping with OM, she is not remorseful.

In other words, wake up.

Sorry to talk harsh about your W.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.