So, yet another question as I mull over options. My wife is going to move out soon, but it's likely to take a little bit of time as she figures out where to go (likely answer: his place). In reading over the info on going dark and detaching, I'm wondering if I should go with my son to the city to be with my sister for a month...with zero contact. I'll need to bring him back in time for school (about a month away), but we could stay away until then. It sounds like this going dark is generally viewed as a good thing, but what about in my situation, where I just got home after being away for nine months? Will she see it as "more of the same," or might she notice the distance and acknowledge that it's a preview of what she is about to lose?
