Was it me or him?!?!

[LoneWlf]

He asked where we were. When I didn't respond soon enough I am guessing he sent me a text to have fun. I replied later that I was biking with the kids.

It is ok to make him wait before replying to his text. You are not always available for his beckoning call.

I am still lost on what I am supposed to say when he brings it R stuff. He did ask me several times if I had moved on or have a BF.

If he brings up convo on R - Listen, look him in the eyes and validate. Come with the attitude of wanting to understand- not defending your position. If he asks about a BF or moving on. Simply state " I'm taking this time to better myself " and leave it at that. Hope this helps! Stay Well!