Hey b, we have all contributed to the downfall of our M. Some more than others. Good thing here is that you have come to a realization of what those are and now can actively work on being better should the opportunity arise. With any relationship after the honeymoon phase things become less intense and we often fall into habitual routine. Often times we take each other for granted. I am guilty of this also. The purpose of this self reflection is to find the kinks in the armor. Repair them - then polish it up turning that weakness into strength ready for battle. No need to beat yourself up over this but show some self compassion by understanding it then positively moving forward. I hope this helps. Blessings on your journey!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18