It is difficult sometimes to make decisions when everything is bouncing off the walls. The best thing to do when this is happening is to sit quietly and allow the answers to come to you. We tend to say around here that doing nothing is actually doing something. If you think it is better to remain in the same town for your children, then do so. Just because she's acting out doesn't mean you need to move out of town. If she states that she's uncomfortable w/you living in the area...she can move.
As for leaving the info out on an iPad for her to read about, i.e., anything to do w/MLC, etc., please do not do this. She will not like it and if she's in MLC, she will not want you to diagnosis her issues. This is something she must figure out herself.
They do leave their animals behind, just as they will tend to leave the children behind for a bit, as well as family/friends and, yes, you. There is nothing you can do to wake her up. However, there is plenty you can do for yourself. Keep the focus on you and your children, educate yourself on depression and MLC and again, focus on you and what you can control and how you react/interact w/her.
One question...how long after you posted to Khy did you try to edit your posting? I need to know if the edit button is working on this forum or you waited more than 10 minutes to try to edit the posting.
Last edited by job; 07/15/1807:50 PM. Reason: Added a question
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
