Hi Gordie, it’s been awhile and I wanted to stop by. Sorry you had to deal with w acting that way to you. Sometimes w/ex I want to treat her like the kids “use your words” it would solve so much.
About w’s activity, is it something you can do w/her some times and not a huge commitment? So you could compromise and do it sometimes. I wish I had something better to offer.
You sound like you’re doing really well, keep up the good work!!