A) A month ago we arranged to meet with the kids in a park and she had a work friend in attendance. The friend and I got along well and the friend kindly offered me a lift home. W didn't look happy about that!
The friend gave me a lift home and we talked when she stopped the car. W phoned her and she ignored the call. I got out of the car and noticed that W was parked hidden around the corner. W was spying on us. W very quickly turned the car and drove away. I waved.
B) We went together for a family meal and W had a different friend in attendance. Her friend gave me a hug and kiss when we met.
During the meal I realised that W didn't know the name of her friend. However, I knew it because the friend had given me her phone number when she heard that W and I were splitting-up. W was stunned that I knew her friend's name but W had forgotten it herself.
W hasn't got any very close friends as she never bothered to socialise much when we were together. If she had an A then she wouldn't have told anyone as I know nearly all of the people that she knows, so an A would have been someone via her job.
C) A local woman gave me some lovely compliments like my W hasn't said to me in years. W found out and then swapped phone numbers with her.
D) W knows that a young woman made me a meal and brought it to the house and has offered to do some gardening for me. W doesn't know who it is but has asked me a few times if she has done any gardening yet and said that she might be ideal for me. That is W being a bit jealous.
E) At a school event, W recently got out her mobile phone and 'acted' as if she was being very highly secretive not wanting anyone to see what she was doing.
However, I could tell that W wasn't really doing anything secretive on her phone, I could see she was just looking at photos of the children and deleting some as her phone was running out of memory space. She was certainly 'over-acting' that she was doing something very secretive, and yet I knew there was no reason to be.
It was like she was deliberately trying to make me paranoid or jealous, or perhaps she was trying to mislead me that her past secretive behaviour was nothing.
