I did it because we are in the same circle of friends.....normally I wouldn’t have even considered it. I said we could meet or I could pick her up whatever she was comfortable with. She said pick up was fine but due to our mutual friends, attending the same church, etc.

Maybe I am downplaying my feelings....I am thinking about her and am obviously torn which means that I do have some interest. I just didn’t walk away with that excitement and that butterfly feeling. TBH I didn’t feel that way with the other two dates though either.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018