Originally Posted by JujuB
Sorry you are here

I guess i dont understand how it is actually possible for her to take kids that you are primary care giver to and leave them with her parents?

Something isnt adding up in your story.

To me, if that was the case, i dont understand why you are not on here consummed with anger about loss of kids. To me that would be the big factor and most immediate issue.

I really dont understand why you are accepting that? Or why that isnt the big ticket item here?


I was the main carer when we were together. W has left our home and taken the children with her to live with her parents. W parents are now doing a lot of the childcare, cooking, cleaning etc. W claims that she will allow 50/50 access to the children in future but at the moment she is only allowing me a couple of hours twice a week plus there have been some events lately at the school that we have both been too and W has wanted me to go to them.

I am devestated that I have lost my W, kids and family life. I am trying not to get angry as W might then use that against me as she tried to get me into trouble.