Your w wants you there to help relieve her guilt it's not going to snap her out of it. Get out and enjoy the mountains and take care of yourself.
Thanks for the warm welcome, Kyh!
This last part is what I'm stuggling with the most. Like I said, I want to stay here because I like the town and so we can make things easier for my son. I just worry that, by being here, I'm making things easy for her. I suggested to her that I might move to the city (about 4 hours away) where my sister is and she immediately concluded that I just want to be alone (i.e., that this is an excuse to live like a bachelor). I think it would be the best thing in terms of not being adound to relive her guilt, making her realize what she is throwing away, and helping to ensure that this MLC affair can run it's course. I would also likely have to take our son with me since she is probably going to move in with this man. Maybe that would be a good thing?
