I am the same way......I work out so I can eat what I want....to a certain degreee She is a brunette, 37, 2 kids 9 and 5. Arms are toned but not skinny toned if that makes sense.....waist down.......thicker than what I am used to, the rear not tight but not all over the place but loose......see was wearing jeans so I couldn’t get a good look at her legs but through the jeans they looked larger as well......not all over the place but again more than I am used to. Maybe she is an 8????? Ex was like a 2 sometimes a zero but she has gained weight in the last year.
So no never really been with a curvier or larger type of woman.
But I am that was I like beer and burgers and pizza......I am not hardcore and walk around with a gallon of water. I guess it is my own mental image of what I think I want or am looking for and this is only my third date.
I can’t leave my town due to our D my girls are restricted so if I move I essentially give up my parental rights. When I think about dating people outside of town 20 miles away etc and they have kids then someone is going to have to move if it gets serious and it won’t be me. I know I shouldn’t think this way but those r the thoughts that creep into my head.