That’s what I am struggling with G.........my ex is 5’4 and 115 on a good day.....I know I shouldn’t do it but I guess it is hard after being with someone for 17years. Outside of the potential looks concern she checks off about every other box.....young kids, I could walk to her house in 15 min, similar interests, we go to the same church, know the same people, she likes to work out like I do......I asked her if she had any quirks and she said eats the same thing for breakfast every day......well I do to . So yeah.....I think it is mental for me.....I remember when I first met my ew not being entirely sold on her......
How do I start to work outside th box? I take good care of myself, I am not perfect but I guess I kind of expect the same and since men are visual creatures then it starts
. So yeah.....I think it is mental for me.....I remember when I first met my ew not being entirely sold on her......