Thanks for the pep talk hongaku and V. I do need that from time to time.
Being self-centred doesn't come naturally to me, but I'm definitely working on it. And I think self-centred and kids-focused is probably the right way for me to think about it. I need to be around for the kids as much as possible, not off doing my own thing, so will find the right balance. I will try to do that all week on vacation and see how it goes.
Head up, chest out and breathe. Got it.
_______________________________________________ M47 W50 T-21 yrs M-19 Yrs S17 S15 D12 Found out about A 04/12/18 BD 04/15/18 Admitted A, name of AP and separate rooms 04/29/18 Told kids 07/22/18