Hi Trevor, sorry your situation led you here but you've found a great place. Everyone here will tell you not to worry about time. It could be numerous years plus or never. That is why it's important to focus on yourself and not wait around. There are many here who have live in MLCers or lots of contact so I wouldn't move unless you want to. You will grow and gain strength you never imagined, it may not bother you soon. It's not easy but that's why there is so much focus on detachment. Also, I wouldn't go on dating sites, especially since you said you didn't want to, work on yourself! Why do that to someone else or yourself. Your w wants you there to help relieve her guilt it's not going to snap her out of it. Get out and enjoy the mountains and take care of yourself.
