Remember this is just a first meeting (which is why it should be a coffee date, and no you shouldn't have kissed her.)
Do you think you felt disappointed because of her looks or her personality? Or did you expect all the excitement of a real first date? Again, this is not a date, just a MEET.
Now, I will say one thing about instant attraction - it's not always s reliable indicator and attraction can develop over time.
My ex husband wasn't my "type" when I met him - yet I came to find him very attractive.
I had "instant attraction " with my Love Avoidant friend - he's perfect for me and tall dark and handsome - but also a broken person who has ghosted me for the past 2 1/2 months. That kind of instant attraction isn't worth much is it?
CMM meanwhile is not my usual physical type. He's average height (I've had a thing for very tall men) , not broad shouldered, thin, not particularly youthful. But he's smart and kind and adores me so I've given him a chance and you know what? He's growing on me!
