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Just got home from my date. We were with each other for a couple of hours. Nervous at first but hit my stride about 30 min in. We had good convo, shared similar interests but I don’t know if I felt it in my bones. She knows my neighbors, attend church together and we live less than a mile from each other. She said she had fun but we did not kiss, maybe she was shy but I didn’t feel the vibe from her. She was not giving off any noticeable lady signs that she wanted it to happen. She was cute but I don’t know if I was overly attracted to her. I hate to compare to my ew but she was not as fit.....only date number 3 but I feel like I long road to go. I would ask her out on a 2nd date but I am not sure anything would change. Attracted I guess some but I don’t feel like oh hell yeah this is a no brainer. Due to our connections a little apprehensive......ugh I don’t think I like OLD.....so far I feel a sense of disappointment. When you know do you know?????? She seemed to lack confidence as well......maybe that is due to her being a widow but I know it isn’t her first date also.

Last edited by job; 07/15/18 12:31 PM. Reason: added link to previous thread

Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018