TJT, I have been reading up on your sitch for a few days now. I see a lot of similarities in our personalities, some in our sitches too. I do not know if mine is a WAH or WH yet, well with us at the doorstep of D maybe it doesnt matter. You are restless and trying to control the sitch that you really cannot do anything about. Have you read thru all of Cadet's homework links, there is a lot of helpful info there. It is still quite early for you so it is natural to react to Hs moods and behaviors but whenever you need to vent out or seek advice use this forum and it will help immensely. For now pull back and watch what happens. I will follow along and chime in whenever I have anything to offer. Take care - Arshi
