Originally Posted by cdn2a

I think some of her stuff is classic as well. She's made up her mind that I'm the source of all of her unhappyness... if she gets rid of me, she'll be happy... I'm sure she wont. You do just want to shake them and tell them to wake up... I'm sure she'll be unhappy afterwards as well.

Yes it is classic WAS script, transferring the blame. this is exactly what my WAH says too, and it is unfathomable how they do not think of the kids in all this madness. Do not fall for her cake eating trap and if it is like most WWs she will not do anything definite to file for D so learn to love the limbo land. Indulge the kids with extra love, they deserve it all, even if both the WAS and LBS are responsible for the breakdown of the MR, i always look at my children and realize how they are being punished for something they had no role to play in. Stay strong, good luck! - arshi