Been ghosting the boards a while before posting. Reading threads, it was for me weirdly comforting too that I wasnt the only one. Like everyone keeps saying, you can only control your actions. Its a weird sort of acceptance, almost like learned helplessness. The gate is unlocked, but we keep it closed...
I think some of her stuff is classic as well. She's made up her mind that I'm the source of all of her unhappyness... if she gets rid of me, she'll be happy... I'm sure she wont. Her mother did the exact same thing and lives in a depressed sorry state. You do just want to shake them and tell them to wake up... I'm sure she'll be unhappy afterwards as well. The angry part of me wants to tell her that if we do end up D.
Problem is the kids and I will be unhappy as well... All the more reason to work on myself and GAL. This isnt a dress rehersal, and the show will go on...
