Thanks for sharing that update. I know this seems weird (even for me to say it) but I do get some sort of solace in the fact that another person is feeling the exact same way as me with respect to D not being a choice, but something that may be out of our control, and the sort of relief that resigning to that can bring.

I hate that this is happening for you this way, but based on even this latest update, I have to agree that she really seems to be cake-eating and for the most part it's as if you all are taking the steps toward D and she's just making it harder for her own gain.


H:39 W:30
M:4 T:9

05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD
07/2018: Discovered A, confronted
09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out
12/2018: I filed
03/2019: Divorce finalized