I gave you an entire post of things to do, have you read all of that? Did that lead you to believe their are different things you can do? Please enlighten me.
Many thanks, yes I have been reading and learning.
I have been working on myself and learned things I could have done better sincw S. I'm nearly ready to fix the relationship and make it better than ever. I know I can do it if W gives us a chance.
I have no solid proof that W is having A but she is showing all the signs of being WW as defined by Sandi2. Could those same signs apply to a WAS?