I dont understand your attitude to/about your children. She texts about them and you dont answer? You say her parents are doing childcare for HER and you are moving away after divorce. But what do you want out of your relationship with them? Do you have 0 custody?
I was doing nearly all of the childcare for years until the day she left and took the children. She is now living with her parents who are doing nearly all of it. At the moment, I am being allowed 2 hours per week plus seeing school plays etc. but it could soon be more. If we get a divorce then I won't be able to afford to live in the area so I will be forced to move away.
