During our conversation on the weekend the W says we should keep comunication to a minimium and just email bills to each other. I say im fine with that. Then wednesday night she goes to the vet to get the dog checked out, she got some new medication for the dog, she was explaining the dosage to me, which i responded. She then says that i know you dont want to, but we are going to have to communicare more often than you would like. Nutty lady.
W has been packing like crazy. I come home from work on thursday and she is cooking dinner. I go out for a walk with the dog and come back and dinner is on the table and we all sit down. Me and kids are talking and having fun while eating, the W just stares at me for a few minutes, i look once at her and she doesnt move her focus. Its not an anger stare, its just like your looking at somone. So finish our dinner and i go upstairs with the kids and come back down 15 minutes later and thge W is rubbimg her head like she is stressed. I just ignore it and get my drink. She locks berself in the room for 30 minutes, while shes there i go to bed.
Friday - leaving day.
I get up early to have a shower and so does the W, we have 2 bathrooms. She get out of hers before me and proceeds to make herself a coffe. I head to my room to get changed and come out 10 minutes later, she is sat at the breakfasr bar staring at tghe ground and not saying anything. I proceed to pack my lunch in font of her and tben head out the door. I do say goodbye and get a bye back. So later in the afternoon rings me and asks what time i will be home, she wants to pop out for a few hours, but doesnt want the kids with her. I respond, ill be home at 5:30pm, she then asks me am i angry with her, i say no. She then tries to have another conversation about random stuff, but i interupt and say im busy and have to go. Dont really say mutch when i come home as she is nearly finished movikng her stuff. So i take D12 out to get snacks and say bye, she cheerfully says bye. She not here when we come back.
Dont know if i did the correct thing, by just getting on with myself and being pleasant. No long goodbyes, etc.
Today me and S10 go for a walk with tyge dog and i disscuss taking him and his sister away, he says he doesnt want to go anywhere unles all the family goes. I said that i dont think mummy would come, i love your mummy, but she doesnt like daddy at the moment. He then said that his mummy said she misses me, i know she would have just said that to comfort him.
I had to hold back the tears while he was talking like this, as he hasng really talked about his emotions all the way through this saga.
