I noticed that you mentioned something about if thd h was controlling of the ww in the past. I just wanted to let you know that shs has accused me of being controlling in the past and even mentioned to my mother that i wouldnt let her see her friends until she took control of her life. Now early in our marriage i was far from perfecf and i used to be concerned about one of her closest friends because she was extremely permiscuous, it usex to bother me that i would constantly hear about her sleeping with this one or that one. Granted i wasnt hearing that about my wife but it was on mg mind.
The other thing Sandi that i think about...what if this om is in a much better spot than me financially? I feel i sacrificed alot for my family and financially if was tough. Now the good news is that i have a lot of expedience in that field so i should be able to improve. Irreguardless if i eved decided to reconsile...im determined to make myself more appealing than this guy. Thank you so much Sandi for helping me during this difficult time.