Is It Too Late?

[ovrrnbw]

It is not too late. You're going to have a hard time with this, but detaching AKA letting her go, will be the best thing for you and your marriage. Get your mind and heart stronger. Be a good dad. Become a better person.

If she is laughing and enjoying life with you without all the parts of you she doesn't want, she is cake eating. Are you willing to just be her "friend" no matter what? If she moves out, if she finds another guy?

Your girls won't be clueless forever. If mommy wants out, you don't keep playing happy family. She chose it, now she deals with that consequence. She might say she's done, but don't believe anything she says and only half of what she does.

When she talks about her feelings give her your full attention. Listen. Validate. Her feelings are her feelings. They won't make sense. Don't try to make sense of them.