I named the new thread Valhalla Cometh because i feel ascended.
I feel like the old me was slain, by the sheer weight of the Sitch, but like the phoenix, something new, vibrant and POWERFUL is rising from the ashes.

Or like the glorious dead, who are escorted to Odin's Halls of Valhalla by the Valkyrie, to train among other victorious dead in honor, awaiting the coming of Ragnarok (Divorce, lol)

I have a lot of healing left to do, and a lot of things to learn about myself, and to refine about myself.

But i feel like I am at least over the crux, i have hit "The Wall" and kept on running.

The wind is dying down, and the sailing should smooth out from here.

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Sorry for using like 7 different metaphors in one post lol.

Lastly, i feel like I am finally in a place to give sound adivce to others here.
I have made the mistakes, i have waded through the pain.

For any Newbie just reading my Sitch for the first time.
I still have a long road, but the posters here are NOT WRONG.

Follow Sandi's Rules
GAL
Do 180's FOR YOU.
Be the best you can be.

Also i just read a really neat article on why working out combats depression and the biological chemistry behind it.
Worth looking into, there is SCIENCE to back up the GAL/180's.

"So many people tiptoe through life, only to arrive safely at death"
~ Jermaine Evans


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds