The way you think of yourself is they way the world sees you. If you think you are not attractive why would your husband or anyone else think you are attractive.
Carry yourself with confidence. Your husband was attracted to you for a reason. If he's chasing beauty he will soon be bored, because beauty becomes boring real quick.
How about you start getting dressed up. I have seen and worked with a lot of respectable women, that gets dressed nice , smell good and carry themselves with confident and they were all shape and sizes. And had very attractive personalities. They just make you want to be around them.
I'm here to scream out loud that confidence is super attractive. Being around a women thats is attractive physically but has low self esteem is a huge turn off.
Nicole, become attractive, in confidence and your physical looks will follow.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.