One word of caution on sharing our sitch with friends and family. Be careful. Since your husband is a conflict avoider telling others may be something that is difficult for him to come to terms with, and that can complicate the potential future R. I know I had to walk this line with my W. If I had told my family and friends I am pretty sure we wouldn't be in piecing and R today. She too is a big conflict avoider due to her childhood with a father who was very abusive to her mother.
So just keep that in mind. Try to limit who you confide in as it could be a barrier to your H returning to the MR.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
