You have been telling me all along to detach and work on myself. Although i struggled mightedly in the beginning, ive really gotten much better. My question is about setting boundaries? I cant live in an open marriage. Nothing has changed since i showed her proof of the affair. Not only does she still deny(dont know how she can) but she continues to sit on her phone and communicate with him everyday. Not to mention she works with him. How can i naviaget this so im not a doormat?
I'm not Sandi, but I highly recommend you read TXHubby's threads because he also really struggled with detachment and boundaries with his cheating wife (who also still lived with him). He eventually got sick and tired of it and well and truly detached and that led to an awakening in her and they later reconciled. This post is kind of a quick summary of what happened, but I do recommend reading all his posts because it's a great example of what doesn't work with a cheater and what does.
