Nicole well stated. It is called being an enabler, and it doesn't work. People will use whatever they can use for as long as they can use it. Enablers let them use it for as long as they want.
So you can continue enabling her or you can take steps to make sure you have no culpability down the line. "I didn't tolerate it!" As Nicole said, the regrets come later.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
