Sandi2,

You have been telling me all along to detach and work on myself. Although i struggled mightedly in the beginning, ive really gotten much better. My question is about setting boundaries? I cant live in an open marriage. Nothing has changed since i showed her proof of the affair. Not only does she still deny(dont know how she can) but she continues to sit on her phone and communicate with him everyday. Not to mention she works with him. How can i naviaget this so im not a doormat?