Sandi,

I have been hearing about CBT through the videos by folks like Richard Grannon.
I was going to ask IC about it when i get setup with her, as she is on vaca until Monday.

I will be looking into the videos you mention.
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I am Looking forward to a good string of GAL events coming up!

I am going to take S3 on "Abenture" tonight after daycare pickup.
Ill probably take him in the canoe across the lake to the playground at my brothers house where i am now living.
Tomorrow we are going out on the ocean on SIL's Fathers Boat.
SIL's Dad and S3 have the same name, and S3 LOVES spending time with him, so thatll be good.
Sunday will be a relaxed day with S3 and then WIFE comes to get him on Sunday evening at 5pm.
Monday my friends have planned a special birthday edition of a D&D Gamenight for me.
Then i have S3 Tuesday Night and Wednesday.
After that I will be leaving super early on Friday for a big important business trip to Wash. DC on Friday. Very excited about this. Quick trip, flying to DC in the early AM, doing my meeting with some Big Movers in DC, then Flying back hom Fri Night. Just in time for my birthday on Sat.

S3 has been excited for my Birthday, and I will see him on Next Sunday night, and will celebrate my Bday with him then.

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Tuesday I am meeting with my grandparents to finalize funding for L.
WIFE has been accumulating neglected responsibilities that will not look good in court.
Has fallen behind on Daycare payments Twice, but yet has not filled out or sent in her packet she needs to complete for me to be able to pay child support.
I have mounting proof of the co-sleeping at OM's house.
S3 was telling me last night that she told him to say the "Boo Boo"s he got happened at my old roommates (Uncle BestFriend) house (She obviously told him to say this before she knew i moved from my BestFriends to my Brothers). He had 2 cuts, one on his thigh and one on his back. He said they were from "Bumping into Nails" whatever that meant.
They were little cuts, certainly nothing to worry over, hes a 3yo boy. Hes going to get bumps and scratches, im ok with that.
What I am not OK with is her telling him to say they happened when he was with me.
I asked him where the boo boo's came from and he said "Uncle BestFriend's House"
I told him we haven't been to Uncle BestFriend's In a few weeks, and that the boo boo's were new.
he replied "Mama said Uncle BestFriends"
i asked "Did Mama tell you to say you got those boo boos at Uncle BestFriend's?"
S3: "Yea!"
ME: "Oh ok, well they didnt happen there, but thats ok. Are your boo boo's ok and getting better?"
S3: "Yea!"
Me: "ok Buddy thats all that matters, i love you"


M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4
All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18
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2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD
2 Major breakups.
2 Rebounds