Just looking for some input.

Again, nothing happening except with is a lot colder and distant this week. Many issues could involve this and that is why I am reaching out. This could be health related (always something, but she has had a virus and been exhausted for about a week or so). The situation with our D not liking me, being grounded, etc. can't make the summer a "fun" place at the moment at home. Zero desire for my W to move forward on anything with a S, D or even her looking for a job. She did make dinner for all of us last night (D declined to join as she is still in her rebelliousness). But we had a nice dinner and then watched some tv. I have given her a bunch more space this week. She keeps her distance as well. I don't know if she is in her head or what is going on. This morning she got up at 4am. Went downstairs. I get up at 5 and workout. By the time I was done, she was asleep on the couch.

Just unsure. Not reading anything into anything, but we haven't had any conversations about anything other than what to get at the grocery or I need this prescription picked up, etc.

How long will this last for? It is very difficult to think about ANY future (with or without her) in this state.

I would appreciate if anyone has experienced this and the best way to handle it. I'm just frustrated and lonely.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18