I read all your thought provoking responses yesterday through the most challenging day at my job yet. I haven't had time yet to respond to each of your thoughtful points, but know they are taken to heart and appreciated.
I'll give a short update. My plans cancelled last night, so I went out on a limb and asked him if tonight would be better than Friday. He replied right away and said "I would love that"
We went out to dinner, closed the restaurant and then went back to his place. During dinner we again talked about everything and we spoke a lot about dating after divorce and it's challenges. He said with all the kids schedules and work, we are smart to grab free time when it comes up. He liked that I told him when I was available.
I grabbed the check, paid for dinner, and we went back to his place. And awwwww yeahhhhhh. We also talked about divorced sex. We are on the same page with that and it has not changed any respect for each other. Actually, I think it is a mutual respect. I will say he was in a SSM, so yeah, he's loving it. And well, I am too. Coffee this morning bright and early, spent an hour together awake.......
So, yes, I read too much into things. I need patience. We are both away next week so it will be about a week and a half until I see him. And he likes that when I find out which night I am free, I tell him, because he is free most week nights and I am not. And we have the most interesting date we are planning in august. Definitely not your typical date, but a good one........
Last edited by job; 08/01/1805:10 PM. Reason: added link to previous thread
