She doesn't need to know that you want to get back together to tell you that she is interested in reconciliation. Without her interest, yours doesn't matter. You not hunting her down is still probably the best thing to do. But you are the expert on your relationship.
In what ways are you guys in contact normally?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.