Hey 2X...I guess I have a problem here. Take sex out of the calculation of your marriage, and I see a woman who is working her butt off, and a lazy husband too self-absorbed to do anything but work on his body. Maybe I'm missing something here, but giving up on working isn't going to make you more attractive to her. So I see your contribution to the problem as MAJOR.

Really, clue me in if you think I'm off base here, but my free piece of advice is to get off your rock-hard ass and get a job.

Hairdog, who thought your screen name was a hoot.