WAW - Managing Limbo Period Pt 2

[Vanilla]

Let me just be clear on what I am saying.

Is W wayward? Yes of course. Is that ok? NO.

There is no doubt in my mind that WW chose to want to rebuild with you and it was reluctant.

But if she is telling you that she felt no intimacy with you for 10 years and you were blind to it then that has to shift.

She will have to feel intimacy to have sex with you.

You may be sleeping in the same bed but it isn't a marital bed. So in some way that intimacy needs rebuilding otherwise what is the point?

You aren't piecing yet and working on M.

V