WAW - Managing Limbo Period Pt 2

[Vanilla]

If you are piecing then you should both be in the MBR.

W has shown no interest in R at all, so this is not relevant.

OK let me ask this, what was it about you that WAS was attracted to?

What did you stop doing to woo her even in M?

Did you have date nights?

Did you lose interest in you?

Did you lose interest in her or sex with her?

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Now it is said that generally men have intimacy for sex and women have sex to get intimacy. WAS does not feel emotional connection to you and despite that she stayed in the M. That is some doing. Classic DB is bang on for you, trying to get WAW into the MBR will repel her completely as she does not have that connection with you. That is something that YOU will have to TANGO. Please reread the books MWD clearly examines why and what you can do.

These intamacies are different. In women that's generally emotional connection and in men physical. So WAW does not mean what you think by her statement. You are lucky WAW is telling you very clearly in unequivocal words what is wrong for HER. Do not dismiss it, it is valuable knowledge and should be validated.

Do you know her love language? Do you know your own?

That would be a good place to start. What do you know about WAW?

Have you included building soft communication skills as a goal? Do you know about seduction and attraction? Do you really know?

All you seem to have in your toolkit is DB and wishful thinking. Let's see some real self development goals and including those skills that are needed to create intimacy.

V