ww totally off rails

[OrangeK]

I feel like people are saying "move her stuff so she can suffer the consequences"

This woman probably does not care at this point. To aggravate the situation anymore will only affect yourself. In my opinion. And piss her off more.

She has made the decision to have OM.
Therefore she has made the decision not to share a life with Fmly1st.
Therefore she has no place in their MBR.
Therefore she needs to see she cannot continue to Doormat Fmly1st.
Therefore she needs to lie in the bed she has made, which IS NOT the MBR.

I didnt lay down the boundaries when i found out about OM, and WIFE continued to doormat me for 3 months. coming and going from our MH as she pleased. If i hadn't moved out when I did, she would have just kept abusing me and taking advantage, and wasting my money.

My only regret was not trying harder to keep my Apartment so that S3 would have kept his room, but i never would have been able to afford it alone. I barely afforded it when WIFE lived there.