I've been through those exact same throughts about the LD mind and the possibility of some deep, hidden issues that are preventing them from living in the real world. Despite hearing it over and over, I was having a hard time believing that someone could be naturally LD. By the same token, I think us HDs start behaving in ways that might make them more LD than they naturally are as a response to their being LD. Does that make sense?
Now, I would have never believed it if I hadn't felt it last night but my brain wasn't into it as I passed by the candle-lit bedroom knowing that my W was about to initiate a LM session. I actually felt the same kind of "pressure" that she's been feeling around me. My brain was not there at all and neither was my physical response (I tried to arouse myself in the shower beforehand with no luck). I was terrified. In an LD woman's case, physical arousal might increase desire like SSM says. In my case, my W fortunately gave me mental arousal (eroticism) at the very beginning and that was all it took to start up my engines. Very bizzare. But back to my point...if an LD feels anything like I was feeling, then I finally "get it".
BTW. Marrying an HD wouldn't typically work. More than likely, you would become LD and irritated by all the advances and she would turn up the volume which would make you even more LD. I dated an HD girl and the same thing happened to me. PM explains all of it.
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