So what now ?

What are you going to do differently than you did in your past relationship, to make sure that things don't get stale and you find yourself right back here in a few months ??

How can you show her that you appreciate her, and her willingness to communicate with you ???

Cause while I understand where you are now, there is still an undertone of YOU being the caretaker of her and her feelings...

Do work buddy.....always