ACC...no that is NOT consistent with someone happy as can be.
Most of what I described of W was consistent pre and post D arrival, BUT she/we had no responsibility. We could come home, have dinner if we wanted or go out and could take off and travel whenever, wherever. We made great money, lived in a modest condo...we had total flexibility and beyond work no responsibility. Once W was pregnant that whole world came to a stop, no going out, no travel, weight gain, body image, pregnancy was tough physically. Fun, carefree was replaced with body image issues, responsibility, no fun (we did travel more as time went post-D). Basically W lost being the carefree women who could do whatever she/we wanted.
