NMB,
I loved your post! It really helps me understand how things are so different for HD and LD.

1. Stimulate her secondary erogenous zones - This would just put my LDW to sleep

2. Talk dirty - This would begin a lecture on how offensive I was being by speaking "indecently"

3. Clitoral stimulation - Not unless and until she is ready to cum, otherwise, that's off limits!

4. Grab her butt - This one would just get me slapped.

What a wonderful world we HDs live in. And what a shame the LDs have no concept of how great it is.

Mike